. <p>[This message has been edited by Rodger (edited May 01, 2001).]

Rodger,<P>I have followed your other threads and questions. It seems that the more you ask and more you know, the story gets worse. <P>If your W does tell you everything because you offer to give her money, how would you feel about your marriage? KNowing that she will only tell you because of the money you offered? Since there are so many versions now, how will you know that this time around, you have everything? <P>When you first posted, I have asked whether you are certain that your marriage is based on love and trust or other motives. Do you still feel the same way, 100% sure that your W married you for love and not other reasons? It is not a question whether your W wants to forget about the A, of course she does and she wants you to but the real questions is what kind of relationship you have and will have with her? IMHO, you have spent too much time worrying about her and what she wants, please think about you. <P>EE