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Well guys and gals...........how do I deal with this. Actually-I know what I ought to do-I am just asking your input to verify that information ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) <P>H doesn't want me back at MB. He is afraid I will backslide. Last night while I was on here he kept making comments and made mention of how long I was here etc.........<P>Then, he would NOT go to bed before I went. Mind you, the man had been up for 29 hours-he worked 12 hour night shift.<P>OK-let me have it.<P>------------------<BR>*heartache*<P>"Life's A Dance<BR>You Learn As You Go.<BR>Sometimes You Lead<BR>Sometimes You Follow!<BR>Don't worry 'Bout What You Don't Know<BR>LIfe's A Dance <BR>You Learn As You Go."
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Oh Sweetheart,<P>Yep. You know what you have to do... <P>...can a comprimise be made via POJA, like you only come on when he's at work, or is he dead-set against you being here AT ALL??<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<BR>(a bit worse for the wear, but hanging in there)<P><B>Life <I>is</I> difficult</B>.<BR><I>The Road Less Traveled</I><BR>~M. Scott Peck
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it's about respect....mutual respect....<P>can you come here again, heartache, without it pulling you down and back into the pit?<P>Hi heartache's H!!....can you perhaps compromise on this issue?...<P>the 'fun' is coming back to MB and Deb here had a big hand in that....<P>remember d-day?...<P>she has alot to contribute.....<P>if it gets her 'down, maybe she can back off awhile.....<P>but we need her...<P>her joy<BR>her love<BR>her experience<BR>her sharing<BR>her help<P><BR>where would the to of you be if she had never come here?<P>think of all she can do to help those that are in pain....think of the goodness in her soul.....<P>then discuss it.....<P>POJA....<P>love you both.......<P>Dylan<p>[This message has been edited by soulloss (edited April 12, 2001).]
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Yep, POJA. Be sure to be open and honest while doing a POJA, since it might create resentment in you if you don't. <P>Please let us know how you two solved it, if you can. It will help all of us who have a difficult time using the POJA know it is possible......<P>My thoughts are with you and your husband.
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