oniblade,<P>There are some good books out there that will help you with your feelings and with what you are both going thru-Torn Asunder and Private Lies....Lets not forget Surviving an Affair alos...excellent books that will help. Hang in there...it soounds like your both going to make it!!!

White Dove ~<P>Oniblade is not my husband and is not a family friend. <P>Thank you for the book references for my H and I. <P>LostNco<P>

Lost, That oniblade is not a friend I find obvious. Funny, she registered here on your D-Day. Any connection...?

I agree with Wounded... I read the "before" it was edited response and, um.. well...<P>...this kind of thing concerns me...<P>I so believe this place is a safe haven...<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<BR>(a bit worse for the wear, but hanging in there)<P><B>Life <I>is</I> difficult</B>.<BR><I>The Road Less Traveled</I><BR>~M. Scott Peck

Oniblade<P>I know who you are and so does my H.<P>There are a lot of questions that need to be answered.<P>How did you find out about this site?<BR>Who told you about this site?<BR>How did you know who I was?<BR>Why are you posting here?<BR>Why are you tryig to contact me?<BR>What are your motives here?<P>It is all very suspicious to me and to my H.<P>I made it <B>VERY</B> clear to you 5 years ago in police presence that I want <B>NOTHING</B> to do with you ever again. <P>Why in the hell would I want to contact you after all you've done? How about the time that you came to my work with a police officer demanding I had your car key then when the police officer asked you to leave then you hit him? How about all those emails you sent quoting the bible "I am God and you will feel my wrath?" <P>Look, you have MAJOR issues and you need to stay the hell away from me and my family.<P>I will state again, <B>I want nothing to do with you.</B> Do you understand this?

FriendinSeattle ~ Thank you for your reply. I will take these things into consideration. I appreciate your view.<P>Wounded2673 ~ Oniblade is a male. Please read my post and you will better understand.<P>Sheryl ~ I am concerned also. I have posted a response to Oniblade. This is supposed to be my safe haven.<P>As my H told me, don't let him take this place away from you. Thank you H, I appreciate all you have done for me. I love you.<P>

Aye, <BR>I have smokes now so I think i can answer your questions, this should be simple really. Might as well go smoke so you can look at what I have to say calmly without reverting back to your old self (less your old self never left)MY only hope when typing this is that to look at it objectively.<P>Warning to all, this is gonna be long. Go to the bathroom. Its probably none of your business anyhow but Lostnco wants it to be out in the open I guess, since my email address is plain as day....<P>***** Content Deleted by Moderator *****<P>Happy Easter and a good life.<P>-J-<p>[This message has been edited by Tempest (edited April 16, 2001).]