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I have been trying plan a for about 3 months; it's HARD!Has anyone had success in bringing back a withdrawn spouse w plan A? My wife still says we're splitting; but I get mixed messages(non-verbal, mostly) . How do you tell if your efforts are having impact? Is the plan the same if they're just withdrawn or if they're having an affair?Is it more difficult to succeed if there is an affair?My wife denies one, and I have no proof, but it seems likely.How do you keep your own head together during this? I'm trying everthing I can to keep my lovely family together.Thanks!

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Hi Family Man,<P>Do a search on "Lostva"...<P>She won back her H with Plan A ONLY!! She never went to Plan B... and her H was LIVING with the OW.<P>That's a beginning... she has a LOT of posts and it will keep you busy!!!<P>Best wishes,<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<BR>(a bit worse for the wear, but hanging in there)<P><B>Life <I>is</I> difficult</B>.<BR><I>The Road Less Traveled</I><BR>~M. Scott Peck

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