H and OW have officially moved in together-after 6 mths of courtship!!! She is riding around town with him in the truck and they are now open with their relationship to all. I know reality will sink in but I am soooooooo angry with both of them-I know if I see them out and about it will effect me.....sometimes I think they are going on with their life and all I am doing is sitting at home ....yes I want to go out but I know now is NOT the time-I'm toooooo vulnarable. Also there is this ego issue-OW is 6 yrs older than me with 3 kids and is ALOT larger than me and is not at all nice (is known as a b*tch in town)and is known as a slub, is still married to her second husband, Why did he choose her??? Everyone in town refers to me as that cute little thing...........If I was so cute why did he leave for her!!!!! ( I was formally TRS so I am not a new be- been doing this for 6 months-Plan A'd for 3 months even though H was not here-D paperwork is going on because H filed)

White Dove, I'm sorry for the pain you are going through. I know you're not really looking for an answer, but I can relate. <P>My H moved in with OW even before EA turned to PA. We own a business together and OW is former employee. Relationship was obvious to other 30 or so employees. He also was open in our very small town with relationship. They drove around together in his truck or her car or even traded vehicles. He brought her to work with him even after she was laid off, at my insistence. <P>The comparisons are so difficult. OW is 28 years younger than me but more than twice my weight (H is twice my weight, and she is 50 pounds heavier than my H). She is unattractive and difficult to get along with - has a big chip on her shoulder adn can't keep any friends. She is also still married and has a 3 y.o. D. Obviously these A's aren't about appearance or even personality. <P>H was determined to make it work with her for a while but finally came home, motivated by the fact that all his friends and family, as well as our employees, thought he was crazy. He figured that maybe he was, though he was still way in the fog. He is slowly emerging, but it's only been a few weeks. <P>Take care of yourself.