Hello,<BR>I am not sure if my H is still in EA with the other woman so my question is do I still stay in plan A even though plan A requires H to break off Ea with the other woman. How do we make progress if she is still in the picture, should I force my H to make a choice at this point, need some answers we go together to see our priest for the first time tom. we have been going on our own since Feb. I am afraid of tom. because I don't know what to say, I think my priest wants him to make a choice tom. Just a few things also to let you know yesterday was Easter and we had a beautiful day with the kids H still lives with us, he also bought me a card that said I am his life, love and friend and signed it love forever, but just last week he told me he was not sure if he still loved me and if he did not go ahead with relationship with OW that down the road he would kick himself. If anyone can give me there opinion or some ideas because I need help with people who have been there. H has me so mixed up. Help!!<BR>Thanks,<BR>PHK

PHK<P>"just last week he told me he was not sure if he still loved me and if he did not go ahead with relationship with OW that down the road he would kick himself."<P>My H also told me something like this. He told the counsoler (sp) that if he couldnt have me back with a good relationship that he would settle for the OP. That he recognized that I was a better person but he loved her.<P>It sounds as if your h is battling with himself over loving you and her. Hang in there. Set a time limit for plan A and then stick to it if you can. Maybe the priest needs to review the MB prinicipals and you need to ask if he is in agreement with those prinicipals. Your H will need to make a choice because you need that choice from him to fulfill your committment to making the marriage strong.<P>Hang in there. I've been there and it is getting better.<P>