My W and I have talked about some friends and our off and on for a while now. The H has just registered on MB and placed his first post on the Just Found Out board. I would be personally grateful if you could please read his post (his name is six shooter) and offer him whatever advise you can.<P>To give a little of their story . . .<P>His w is involved in an A with a co-worker (she and I work together by the way). She has told her H that she is ending the relationship, and wants to work on the marriage, yet she continues to be with her OM. She has kicked six shooter out of the house, telling him that she needs time to "sort things out." She is actively lying to not only her H, but to her OM, and to anyone who has been her friend. She has cut off all contact with everone, who is not supportive of her continuing her A.<P>She has 4 children, two by her H, six shooter.<P>She told her six shooter that she was going to spend the weekend with a friend from work who was sick. There were issues at home, and her H tried to reach her, and was unable to get her to respond to his calls and pages.<P>He came by my house this morning, and we talked some, then he left. Later in the evening I received a phone call from six shooters mother telling me that he had just found out that his W was with her OM, and that he was threatening suicide.<P>Well, obviously I went over right away. We talked a lot, then I had him come to my house. Registered him for MB, and had him read several different threads before he posted his first thread on Just Found Out.<P>So once again, I would be very grateful for any assistance you can offer him. He is very confused and hurt right now.<P>God Bless
