This guy offered my wife a job the other day.He phoned her up and they talked for 20 minutes. They were very happy. The guy who runs a restaurant said he was not married. Later I find out he was married. So I told my wife she cannot work for him. I said why do you think he is lying to you? I said he is after you. Now I hate this feeling of being a watchdog everytime some guy offers my wife a job. But she had an affair a few months back and she is constantly being chased by men. Someone told me she should go to some church to build up her self esteem and moral values so that no matter how many evil men chase her, she would never fall into temptation and have the affair. But I don't really know if any religion or any concelling will build up principles enough so that affairs are not possible. My wife already knew these things were wrong to start with. So she had principles and values. She was able to turn down all offers for sex before. But one time she couldn't. But feeling like you have to be a watchdog is not very good. On the other hand the attitude of "do whatever you like" is also not good. If I know for a fact some ghuy wants to make out with my wife then should I say nothing. Of course she should be smart enough to realize it too but it seems sometimes she is not.

It is best if your W can be honest with you on any advances, this man... or any other man makes!<P>Could this be a point to address in your personal <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3500_policy.html" TARGET=_blank>Policy of Joint Agreement(POJA)</A>?<P> <P>Jim