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I have been living in Plan B since WH left 2 months ago. I have only talked to him 1 time in that time. I feel the need to let him know I love him and forgive him. He has been slandering my name to so many, he is so hurt and angry and scared, I know my husband. So I sent him an Email today that said "God Loves You, your boys love you and I love you very much and forgive you" Does that seem like the right thing to do and does that help build up the love bank. I feel like I have been too hard and maybe even gave him the impression that it was totally over with us and our marriage. Help, guys! God has convicted me that I must forgive him and now I feel the need to try to help him, he really has himself in a terrible mess and he isn't a strong person.
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SEF - well, it literally violates Plan B, but since you've already done it, I hope it helps. Those words are beautiful and if you're going to tell him something, that was certainly the thing to say, in my opinion. Maybe wait for any reaction and determine if it helped before you communicate any more.<P>Good Luck.<P>WAT
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