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Do you ever think that most WS's worry about the new person they are with becoming a WS. From what I understand most WS think that the affair that they are having is ok and nothing is wrong with it. But i think that deep down inside if and when they get into another relationship or remarry, they realize that what they did to their other spouse can easily be done to them.<BR>Anyone have a comment or expericence with this?<P>You know the thief is always worried that someone is going to steal from them. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>------------------<BR>Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.
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I know a couple who got together under similar circumstances. He left his wife for this person, they married, etc, etc. He has two sets of children and has gotten himself into quite a financial mess because he wants to keep her happy, etc. Lives way beyond his means. I feel his underlying thoughts are she will leave him for someone else.
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When I was a WS, I struggled with this from the other perspective. How could she trust me when I cheated on my wife? I never considered at that time, or til recently, that it would be done to me.<P>I guess we reap what we sow.
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