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Do you ever think that most WS's worry about the new person they are with becoming a WS. From what I understand most WS think that the affair that they are having is ok and nothing is wrong with it. But i think that deep down inside if and when they get into another relationship or remarry, they realize that what they did to their other spouse can easily be done to them.<BR>Anyone have a comment or expericence with this?<P>You know the thief is always worried that someone is going to steal from them. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>------------------<BR>Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.
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Bioman<BR>I don't think that most WS are thinking that far ahead. If they were thinking rationally, then they probably wouldn't be doing what they are doing. I know my WS would never think that far ahead. I've read in here that the WS, once returned home and no longer W, will sometimes have worries about their spouse having a revenge A on them. Something to think about.
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Thinking? They are incapable of thinking. The aliens or brain worms have assured that.<P>I told you once already, BioMan, don't try to analyze them. If you insist, practice with some mental floss first.<P>WAT
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I am a ws (one time) and no I would not worry about the ow. As Dr. Harley states, anyone is capable of an affair under the right circumstances. Marriage is an artificial condition, the fact is humans bond irregardless of marital status. So if a marriage is sufficient non-nourishing, anyone may bond (ie have an affair) with someone. The issue is not the affair, but why, and what follows.
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