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BM, I didn't mean to upset you by giving you the address of that website. I just wanted you to read some of the stories about OW's who wait for YEARS AND YEARS for their MM's to leave since we were talking about your W thinking that possibly her OM would leave his W.<P>As you can see, it seldom happens. I apologize if I steered you down the wrong path.
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Susie, <BR>It is ok, it didnt upset me. Actually it gave me a different prospective on my situation. I pity my STBX now. Cause I'm sure that his wife is not going to let it alone like I am. And even if they do get together my STBX will probally have a harder time then i have ever had. I have depression now and I'm on meds and going to a couseler. My Stbx told me that she is fine and doesnt need any of that stuff cause she is not depressed. My couseler said "just hide and watch" cause she is going to feel it too.<P>------------------<BR>Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.
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You're right, she IS going to feel it - possibly worse than you do right now. Believe me, OM is most likely not leaving his W.<P>Every WS thinks their OP is the one for them and that their situation is "special" (that lovely fog) but all you have to do is read these boards and you'll see that almost every situation is similar and ends the same way.<P>I've read some posts on the TOW board and these women just can't believe that their MM isn't leaving. In fact, one woman posted that she's been waiting for 17 YEARS. She desperately needs to get a clue.<P>I hope your W doesn't become one of those women, especially when she has someone right at home who loves her so much. I wish you strength and courage. {{{Hugs}}}}
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Thank you so much ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Bless you<P>------------------<BR>Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.
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