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#910776 04/28/01 02:05 AM
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I a wondering how I go about finding e mails from OW to H and vice a versus. I can't access the account that he has for work, he is in the military so their address is their name@ name of base.af.mil I don't think that he is using this account, has a laptop that travels with him, so is not using the home PC much, I am just trying to find out if there in NO Contact how do I do this can someone help me please!!!!

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There is a site called iopus.com...it has spy software that installs and runs invisibly...<BR>All you have to do is install it on his laptop and set it up to secretly e-mail you reports on the home system or somewhere else you would feel comfortable.<BR>The reports you get show you passwords, e-mails, chats, and visited websites.<BR>I have a cousin who is using it, and she has learned a great deal about her husbands activities online.<P>Is that the kind of thing you're looking for?

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Daybreak<P>I'm just figuring out how to respond directly to a specific person and I have been here for 2 months (yes - I'm blond).<P>Wanted to respond to you only b/c I am a military spoouse as well - Army. Don't know how to access his e-mail, but would like to see my H e-mail traffic also. He doesn't e-mail OW but shares his situation and gets advice from others. <P>My H still has contact with OW (now that they both have cell phones - I will interested in seeing the bill when it comes in) but says he is gradually breaking it off and has told her she needs to move on. Don't know if I believe him though. Anyway - bad weekend - he is TDY for drill weekend and of course OW is in his unit. Don't think there will be much "alone time" if any b/c too many eyes - COC is already watching b/c suspicions have been shared in the past and he was counseled and OW was removed from his office and back to the platoon. Not that it did any good/changed things.<BR>He stayed out all night last night - said he had to work late getting ready for this a.m.'s departure, had to socialize a bit and get up early (didn't call either). Don't know where he slept or who he was with and it eats me up inside.<P>Anyway - sorry to spill all this, but it's easier to share with someone who has military background - a whole aspect that a lot of people can't relate to and it takes too long to explain it.<P>Thanks for listening and hope your situation improves - pray alot.<P>Darlene<P><BR> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by daybreak:<BR><B>I a wondering how I go about finding e mails from OW to H and vice a versus. I can't access the account that he has for work, he is in the military so their address is their name@ name of base.af.mil I don't think that he is using this account, has a laptop that travels with him, so is not using the home PC much, I am just trying to find out if there in NO Contact how do I do this can someone help me please!!!!</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>


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