as you know i am in the sad process of a divorce caused by the many mistakes i've made. my h says lets work on being friends i say " ok but can we act like married people until it is final at least"? he agreed to stop spending the night with his friend that just happens to be a girl. well last night he didn't come home he said he fell asleep at her house because it was late should i voice my hurt? or should i be quiet? he is very easy to aggravate. i am confused.i am the one begging to save our marraige ,not him maybe i deserve theese broken promises. please pray for me.

R2C,<P>First thing...Go to your local bookstore and purchase <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6070_sa.html" TARGET=_blank>Surviving An Affair(SAA)</A> by Dr. Willard Harley and <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6030_love.html" TARGET=_blank>Love Busters</A> by Dr. Willard Harley...<B>READ THEM, LEARN THEM, LIVE THEM</B>...<P>Actualy, before you do that...go to the following link...<A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A and Plan B</A>....<B>MEMORIZE THE INFORMATION!!</B><P>Then read <B><I>ALL</I></B> the information in the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3000_intro.html" TARGET=_blank>Basic Concepts</A><P>Come back and post and learn!! Read, reply, read, reply....<P>You can do this!!<P>Bill<P>------------------<P><BR>May the roads rise to meet you,<BR>May the winds always be at your back,<BR>May the sun shine warm upon your face,<BR>The rains fall soft upon your fields,<BR>And until we meet again,<BR>May god hold you<BR>In the hollow of his hand.<p>[This message has been edited by WilliamJ (edited April 28, 2001).]