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Hi there,<BR>I was just reading Orchid's thread...and you mentioned 'the plan' in regards to her husband coming home.<BR>My husband is here with me, but things are not going well...I was wondering what you meant by 'the plan', and whether or not it was something I could use to help get things back on track?<BR>Please let me know.<P>Thanks, and good thoughts and prayers to you.<BR>-A
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SD,<P>I just know from my own experince (which has not been good) & reading here that for the most part if you follow the steps outlinded in SAA that it is easier. My DWH & I would say we want to recover our marriage but never took any of the steps. I did Plan A but not any of the other steps but my H has never stopped contact with OW, not ever after moving half a world away from her. Several members have posted plans or varations of the SAA, I have them saved but will need time to dig them out. When I look up for ORchid, I will email you also.<P>Good luck, hang in there
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Thanks sing...<BR>I just bought a copy of SAA...I'm on chapter two.<BR>If the plan is in there then don't worry about the e-mail...I'll have a look later and see if I can find them.<BR>We don't have much of a plan at the moment...we are in counseling, but the therapist is not the greatest...says we need to focus more on my H and doesn't do much for me except to say hang in there and don't make any decisions yet.<BR>Thanks...thanks a lot.<BR>If it wern't for this site, and one other I visit I swear I'd be totally lost!<BR>Thanks for the input...and the info. Another tool can't hurt.<BR>Take care of yourself...and stay strong.<BR>-A
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