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Blame/Guilt Scenario - How does it work? #911234 05/01/01 11:17 AM
Joined: Mar 2001 Posts: 311 S sadandconfused Member
sadandconfused Member S Joined: Mar 2001 Posts: 311	Me and my damn analytical mind. I don't understand how putting all the blame on the WS makes the BS not feel guilty. How can they make things up and believe these things and not feel quilty. My W has blemed me for everything under the sun these days. I asked her once if she felt at all guilty in any of this and she said with a perfectly expressionless face - NO. It would just help me to know how the blame/guilt scenario works in their mind.

Re: Blame/Guilt Scenario - How does it work? #911235 05/01/01 11:28 AM
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worthatry Member W Joined: Sep 2000 Posts: 10,060 No. Va.	S&C - I know, I know. They are out of their minds, temporary insanity, alien abduction, moose brain worms, it's really their evil twin, whatever. Yours is no different.<P>Maybe someone medically qualified can explain the endorphins or whatever they are called that gives the addictive "high".<P>Sorry S&C, it's part of the disease. Accept it for now.<P>Dave

Re: Blame/Guilt Scenario - How does it work? #911236 05/09/01 07:12 AM
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jabber Member J Joined: May 2001 Posts: 611	It seems to me that they deny everything, so they do not have to feel any guilt, they will go to great lengths to justify what they are doing, and make every attempt to prove they are doing or did the right thing. <P>

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