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I reviewed my H's cell phone #'s list and found some suspect numbers. I then calmly asked him what they were and he basically had a verifiable explanation but he then proceeded to say that "there is nothing left for me to do to.....> You are not sorry for ruining OUR dreams ....Yet I am still sorry for hurting you even if I feel justified".<BR>How many times do BSs screw up before they really smarten up?<BR>
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We all screw up. It's darn hard not too. What has worked for me most of the time is just not say or do anything if you have the least suspicion that'll it'll be received as an LB. Leave the room, count to ten, bite your lip - anything to keep from saying something that you may regret before it's even fully out of your mouth.<P>WAT
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I screwed up yesterday also, after we had a very nice weekend together. We all know what we should not say or do, but sometime it is also so impossible.<BR>Worthatry offer some good suggestions. Next time we will just bite our lip hard and keep counting. 1...2...3...4...5...
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