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Message Removed, Only Because Ken THINKS He Is So Smart (If only he knew)!!!!!!!!!!<p>[This message has been edited by gz1234 (edited July 11, 2001).]
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gz,<BR> <BR>I imagine her lack of response is due to the advice of her attorney and it appears she is following their advice very carefully. Please be careful about violating the court orders. It can come back to bite you harder than you thought possible. <P>My best suggestion to you is to continue to work on yourself. The fact that you have quit drinking is great. Concentrate on you and getting yourself healthy mentally and physically. Stay strong. Friday is coming soon and I wish you the best of luck.
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The last post was absolutely right - keep working on yourself. <P>I too, went down the road of leaving love messages and even red roses in my WH's car, writing him love poems etc., This was because he had told me that he wanted 'love and romance' in his life now (which he was getting from the OW). Unfortunately I soon realised that it was a big mistake as he said it made him feel 'smothered'. If I were you, I would just concentrate on getting yourself back into shape again and forget about all those declarations of love for the time being. When you feel it is time, start off slowly and on a 'friends' basis rather than a 'love' one.<BR>Best of luck, Paint

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