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First this is serious. Women only please.<P>I can understand a woman having a fantasy about wanting to be with another woman. My WS says it is a very common fantasy among women.<P>Here's the question: YES OR NO ONLY PLEASE<P>Has there ever been 5 minutes in your life, that you, as a woman, have fantasized about sex with another woman? This includes being curious and wondering.

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Absoutely, NO, NO, NO, NEVER!!!

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Nope, not for me! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Mitzi [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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.<p>[This message has been edited by Alberta (edited September 15, 2001).]

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No.<BR>Two women making love is a male fantasy, not a (heterosexual) female one.<BR>The very idea bores me to death.<P>Psycho_B***h<P>

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no, I haven't. I find the idea distasteful myself...

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Yes.

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No

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Yick, no! Sounds like something a teenage boy's wet dream, though.

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NOOOOOOOOO! <BR>It is my WH's though!

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absolutely positively not

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Yes<P>(I do not believe that every woman has this fantasy. That would be absurd to state so. Each of us are different. Just like men fantasize about different things. Were all different.)

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YES<P>but only since I've known my H, and the thought only occurred to me b/c it's one of his biggest fantasies, and the thought only comes to mind when I'm really turned on (with H of course!) grin.

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Why do you want to know? I'm not going to answer the question until I understand why you are asking it........

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hopeful took the words right out of my keyboard...<P>Why do you think this information will help you, Lost?<P>Not to be defensive, but this is a VERY personal question and I don't know you...<P>Blessings to you and your family.<BR>--HBC

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Note that this is Lost's first post ever. Hope he/she/it's glad they found us.

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I guess it's up to the individual to respond or not. Yes its personal, but I'm not offended by it. Yes I have thought about sex with another woman - I've never had sex with another woman nor do I plan to, but yes, I've been curious.<BR>I don't think that is abnormal at all.

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Never really fantasized about with another woman, just fantasized about catching them in the act and how I would react. Can't say this was completely sexual, just revengeful! I am a former BS and now I dont' know anymore! shocked

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Oh boy, let's see. I guess I have been curious about it. I wouldn't say that I "fantasized" about it - I mean hell, a man can do everything that a woman can do and then some! So what's the point?

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ummmm, ......... yeah........<P>college + curiosity + lots of beer = open, frank conversations on these topics...<P>plus have you <B>SEEN</B> Michelle Pfeiffer ?!?<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>although.....to be honest.....since H's A was with a woman who had spent the previous 14 years with women only...a 'supposed' lesbian..... all thoughts of Michelle have been platonic....

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