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Help. A week or so ago I picked up my husband's cell phone. He had a voice mail, which I checked. It was a woman telling him that she had received his computer message, was going out of town, would love to hear from him that afternoon. After some convincing he finally admitted that he had been talking to her on the computer for several months. Gave her his cell #, e-mail address at work, work phone #. Says they only talked about baseball and sports. I finally called the OW. She got defensive but told me that they only talked about baseball. Should I be worried or not. Please help. Can't eat, losing weight, can't sleep.
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Peacemaker,<P>Welcome to MB. Please see the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000002.html" TARGET=_blank>General Welcome for All New Builders</A> posted by NSR. It has a lot of information that you should read.<P>Please know that you are not alone. You should read, read, read and post. Someone should come along soon that can give you more advice than I. <P>Again, you are not alone and you have come to the right place.<P>K
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Read all the information. Maybe talk to one to of the Harley's. See if your H will do the ENs & LBs questions. <P>READ< READ READ<P>Then come here & ask questions. There will be someone who has/or is in your shoes.<P>
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Good advice from these two posts.<P>Should you be worried? It sounds like you already are.<P>Unfortunately those of us here know there is no truth-meter. You have to judge whether your H and OW are telling the truth, but it sounds like at least the begining of some emotional attachemnt and generally that can't do a marriage any good.<P>You are among friends here. Read, post and ask questions.<P>Good luck. <BR>
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Thank You, I am worried. Just wanted to know if I was crazy or "over protective" for being so worried. It's not so much that he was talking to her, just the fact that he hid it from me for so many months. Says he knew I would take it the wrong way, duh!!!! He has since had his cell phone turned off and quit his second job to be home more often. He still has his e-mail at his main job however, that worries me. Says he will no longer talk to her. How can I be sure??????
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