Oops, submitted in error. <P>Sorry.<BR>L.<p>[This message has been edited by Orchid (edited May 24, 2001).]

Orchid.<P>Disgusting. Just disgusting. I wonder if she (OW) knows what an idiot she sounds like? Hullllo!!! (thunk-thunk-thunk!) He's, um, *married,* your creepness!<P>belld

Belld, you are a hoot! <P>Just so you know, I wrote the letter so that she would go away. I know how naive I was. She was a good worker, just wish she wouldnt have extended her job duties.<P>I suppose the utimate question is when can you really say it ended. When Dday was, for me no, when he left and came home, for me no, when I finally blew up at work, kicked him out, and he came back, yes. But the difference was he finally decided to end it not me. Or maybe she did. One will truely never know.<P>I do know that he wrote the no contact letter and I mailed it. I do know that he isnt contacting her now and hasnt been in the last 3 months. <P>But the nagging question is, did she finally get enough and told him it was over and therefor it was easy for him to send the no contact letter and break it off. And that is why we havent heard any more or did he make the break and the OW is waiting for an appropriate moment to come back to life.<P>On the news this am, we heard about a dog that appeared to be dead after being ran over by the postman, so the owner burried it. A few hours later the dog, dug itself out of the ground. I thought gee, I wonder if .....

Belld, you are a hoot! <P>Just so you know, I wrote the letter so that she would go away. I know how naive I was. She was a good worker, just wish she wouldnt have extended her job duties.<P>I suppose the utimate question is when can you really say it ended. When Dday was, for me no, when he left and came home, for me no, when I finally blew up at work, kicked him out, and he came back, yes. But the difference was he finally decided to end it not me. Or maybe she did. One will truely never know.<P>I do know that he wrote the no contact letter and I mailed it. I do know that he isnt contacting her now and hasnt been in the last 3 months. <P>But the nagging question is, did she finally get enough and told him it was over and therefor it was easy for him to send the no contact letter and break it off. And that is why we havent heard any more or did he make the break and the OW is waiting for an appropriate moment to come back to life.<P>On the news this am, we heard about a dog that appeared to be dead after being ran over by the postman, so the owner burried it. A few hours later the dog, dug itself out of the ground. I thought gee, I wonder if .....

ZZZ,<P>ROTFLMAO at the dog reference! <P>This is just from MY experience: the OW will NOT go away, whatever you try. H ignored her phone calls, and she kept calling and calling (anonymously) for almost a YEAR. She reserved the times when she made successive calls to, oh, holidays and such - when me and my H were supposed to be rejoicing. She pulled out every single stop to break me and my H up. I don't know what he told her, but obviously it did not get through loud and clear. He told me that he had no intention of having a long-term relationship with her. Well, he could have told her that from the get-go and spared us all of this pain.<P>As for being a good worker ... yeesh, a lot of people I know are good workers. Had a guy working last session, lawyer, excellent worker ... violated the harrassment policy at work. He was outta here without recommendations. It's not just how well you do the actual job - it's how you conduct yourself in the workplace. Who cares if this woman is a perfect worker, if she preys on MM? <P>belldandy

My wife had (at least) three affairs. The first two did “end quietly” in that I didn’t “know” about them. I suspected something but had very, very, very little evidence. We did go through a bit of trouble after the second one, but she never fessed up until I confronted her about it after I discovered her current affair.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>