Does anyone know the where the thread is that everyone contributed to, listing what their WS has said about not having an affair... like "we're just friends" <BR>I know we had a pretty long list, some funny and some not. I am looking for it because H said something last night, just as I was going to sleep. It woke me right up and I told him that it was what all say when having an affair. I can't remember today what it was and he says he doesn't either. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>Thanks anyone that can guide me to a thread. L