I have been watching MB for a post from you for days now. Please allow the fine folks here to lend a helping hand.<P>It will help you to talk about your situation. And here you are able to talk while remaining unkown to all. Your troubles are safe here.<P>I don't know you but I am very worried about you. Obviously you want some help as you have come to MB on a few occasions that I can tell.<P>Please let us help-I feel bad that you are hurting so much. Tell us only what you want to share-but maybe we can help get you through even just a bit of the pain so that you can begin to heal.<P>PLEASE-for yourself consider tlaking to us here.<P>Big hugs and a lot of prayers are heading your way.<P>I care!<P>------------------<BR>*heartache*<P>"Life's A Dance<BR>You Learn As You Go.<BR>Sometimes You Lead<BR>Sometimes You Follow!<BR>Don't worry 'Bout What You Don't Know<BR>LIfe's A Dance <BR>You Learn As You Go."

Just an addition to move this up, and let you know that I care, and that I am thinking of you also... your messages always sound very sad. <P>Please know that you can write ANYTHING here and are SAFE.<P>Please let us know you're okay!!<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>And we know. We who have seen. ~Pellegrino

.<p>[This message has been edited by Aeon Blue (edited May 21, 2001).]

I see you-now come back and talk to us please!!!!!<P>How are you doing?<P>------------------<BR>*heartache*<P>"Life's A Dance<BR>You Learn As You Go.<BR>Sometimes You Lead<BR>Sometimes You Follow!<BR>Don't worry 'Bout What You Don't Know<BR>LIfe's A Dance <BR>You Learn As You Go."

Dear Blue,<P>If you are relunctant to share your story with this board, please utilize the information on this site. Also there is the option to use the phone counseling session with either Steve or Jennifer Harley. It can be done in the privacy of our own home. It was a comfortable session for myself and my husband. <P>I will post the notes shared by Bill to aid you in finding the information that may be the most beneficial for you. <P> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/009007.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/009007.html</A> <P>Many of us come here when we feel we are in a helpless or hopeless situation. As bad as we feel, we find many are in similar scenarios. Here we share our fears, sorrows, laughters (learn to laugh at ourselves and even sometimes our situations), our strengths and weaknesses. Together we have learned to help each other in ways that could not have been attained on our own. <P>For those you want help, you are always welcomed here. Some are shy while others are outgoing. Most of us are here because we have been hurt. The ones who have been here longer gently care for us newbies and we in turn help where we can. The combination has a two fold effect and benefits all. <P>The other benefit I would like to share is the commaradery (sp) here. When someone tries to come in and attack some of those here, a very strong support is given and I have personally seen those persons leave due to their bad intentions were brought to light. This is good and makes it a safe place for those like us in need. <P>I sense you do not want us to intrude on your issue, I respect that. When you are ready to come and share, we will be here. In the meantime, please take care and hope this info helps a bit. <P>L.<BR>