I stayed at my friend's house. WS called me once on the cell phone and left a message on Friday.<P>This morning I got an e-mail from him, "Your mail is in the truck, etc. etc.<P>Then this morning he comes down to my office and starts talking about a trip we had been planning for August! Like nothing is wrong!<P>When I calmly told him that he made his choice, the OW. He told me he didn't want her. He still is planning on going his trip and meeting with her though....have a fallen and hit my head? I don't get this behavior. Does he really expect to go see this woman and then come back, move to CA with me and I am supposed to forget about all this trauma, he is putting me through. I am sorry, I don't think he should be calling her, e-mailing her every day, meeting with her.<P>I have a lot of tolerance but I cannot accept this situation and he is acting like he is doing nothing!<P>Pray for me to have patience and wisdom!<BR>

Words are nothing, it is all in the actions and his actions are SCREAMING that he is chosing to disregard his marriage for OW. U have not fallen on your head and you are not crazy. There should be NO CONTACT calls, emails, trips with OW. He is in la-la land thinking that you will sit by and put up with such behavior.