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Things too peaceful?
#915494 05/22/01 11:14 PM
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In the 3 months since my H moved out to live with OW on D-day, things are very, very quiet. I have not LBed at all that I know of, and have left my WS to visit me as he wishes and be with OW as he wishes.I have made basically no contact with OW, except one message when he first left to tell her that I love him. I am plan Aing when he does come to visit. I'm afraid this is too easy for them. Does it make sense to leave them alone so much so she might think I don't care any more? I sometimes think I should write her,being very nice(as hard as it would be), to see if I can make her feel guilty. Should I continue as I am or try to stir up something?
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Stirring up something will only give OW reason to fight for your H more. She would probably use that to manipulate him more than she already has.<P>Has your H told you or shown any signs that he is torn on what to do? Has he told you he loves you, or at least cares for you? Does he talk in future tense with you, about your marriage?<P>Karen<BR>
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#915496 05/22/01 11:29 PM
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My H has said he is torn and told me he loves me but he seems to be visiting less and less.He will not talk about the future with me but he hasn't used the word 'divorce' either.

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