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#915622 05/23/01 01:41 PM
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Hello everyone!!!! Yes i'm still alive. things are about the same here as far as our divorce goes [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] but i have decided to let him do what he wants because i had become a very unpleasent person and i was letting my emoitions consume me mainly jealousy. i was killing myself and making Paul very uncomfortable in the same process. so i'm done. tomorrow we got to go to court [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] we will get through this. i have faith in my leader the Lord Jesus Christ [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>I love you all Thanx 4 your support<P><BR> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]Amanda [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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Amanda:<P>Although I'm very sorry that your marriage is ending, I want to encourage you to "fight for it", even after divorce. That doesn't mean that you should be getting jealous in dealing with Paul's friend. It does mean that you MUST take solid steps to restoring Paul's trust in you.<P>This means that you're going to have to learn new behaviors. You should remain absolutely faithful to him, after divorce. You should certainly focus on your role as a mother, and your role with Paul as parents. I personally don't think that your marriage is "over"---but you have a LOT of work to do to restore it. And it's going to fall solely on your shoulders. And your Lord Jesus Christ would want you to do it.<P>God bless you, Amanda---and get to work!


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