Well my husband went on his trip and it is ripping me up inside. Apparently, his "friend" invited him to a BBQ at her family's home on Monday and he is going. "We're just friends and I used to get along with her father really well." is what I was told. I also found out that he is only staying at his grandparent's Friday and Saturday. But Saturday and Sunday night he is staying in the hotel because "I can't stay with my grandparents too long." He is planning on watching the NASCAR race at the hotel on Sunday but his "friend" who doesn't like NASCAR is going to see him because it is her day off. <P>The topper on all this, I got home yesterday after he left and his prescription of blue pills are not in the bathroom. I am sure he took them with him. So much for him telling her that sex will complicate the friendship. <P>I am sick to my stomach. I am getting ready for our move in two weeks and I have found myself separating our belongings so the movers pack everything separately and I can just move on my own. I hate this. He tells me that I am so important, I make him happy, blah, blah, blah but that he wants to stay friends with this woman. Poor thing, moved back home after she and her husband split up, she misses her old high school boyfriend, she hasn't had sex in 4 months, etc. etc. Why is he putting me through this?????<P>I love him but this is too much. I cried so much when I saw the prescription gone. The last thing he told me before he left was I love you...what a joke.<P>How much do you want to bet he won't even call me this weekend even though he talks to his "friend" every day when he is here.<P>I wish this would just stop...I hurt so badly.
