I did not e-mail the OW. I knew better but just needed to hear it. Instead I had no contact with H after Monday a.m. (I kicked him out of house Sunday night)(H also told me it really hit home Monday night when he realized I wasn't going to call him. Thats when he really started to think about everything) I did however call him Tuesday afternoon to make sure he was picking up the girls at safekey as he usually does on Tuesdays. I told him we needed to go over a few things like his days to see the girls ect. Well, to make a long story short he confessed to everything including things I knew nothing about. He also told me he was disappointed I fowarded e-cards to OW that he sent me, something I did not do. We figured shes been breaking into my e-mails and reading everything, including a "diary" I have in there. She was reading all of the cards and mail he'd send me and use it to her advantage. H is now back in the house and she is absolutly no threat to us. We are setting her up to catch her in my mail, she's already slipped up once. H is now able to see how OW got him was with a little attention but to keep him she had to break into my mail and lie to him. We are scheduled for counseling and are looking foward to improving our marriage. Thank you all so much for your words of encouragement.

Hi TI,<P>You have provided good news with your update. I am happy for you, your and your family. May the road to recovery be smoother. It is good that your H can see the OW for what she really is. <P>Please change your user and let us know how you are doing. You are not the 'town idiot'. The ow takes the cake on that one. Please give yourself a better and more appropriate name.<P>Take Care, <BR>L.

Duplicate due to flood control.....<P><p>[This message has been edited by Orchid (edited May 27, 2001).]