Hi, I read your post to Tere and wondered what reason did your H give you for the OW aloof treatment towards you when you went to the office? <BR>My H had 2 yr EA with co worker and he says she "resented" my life style (getting to stay home with kids and trying lots of crafts and hobbies) I asked him why would he want to be friends with someone that didn't like me? It was all business [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] L