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Okay, my ex was 27 when he had the first affairs (the seven year itch) and then again when he was 40 (mid-life revenge affairs).<P>I was 40 when I had an affair (mid-life crisis).
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My H was 46 when he had an online EA. When he turned 47 he then had an online cybersex/PA and later had an EA/PA that lasted for six weeks with a 44 yr old woman. I was 49 at that time.
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Husband was 44 and I'm 42 Ow is around 20. Def. mid-life crisis though he refuses to believe that.<p>[This message has been edited by quakermom321 (edited June 05, 2001).]
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H's affair started at age 26, ended around age 27. We were married for 3 yrs at the time.<BR>Interested to see the results of this one...<P><p>[This message has been edited by JenniJ (edited June 04, 2001).]
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My H was about to turn 49 when the affair began.
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Let's see, <P>My first husband was about 28.<P>My second husband was 33 - he started before we got married and never stopped.<P>My third husband was 44 - he also stared before we got married and says that at 11 months into our marriage he has stopped.<P>Boy can I pick them or what!!! Maybe an idea for another thread?<P><BR>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare
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H is 26 (also 7-year itch). I'll be 26 tomorrow.
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My H is 40 and his little OW is 30. We have been married for l9 years. I knew he would have a mid-life crisis, but not this severe!
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H was 58-60 depending on when co worker relationship turned EA. Only sign of a mid life that I have seen, late bloomer ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/shocked.gif) <BR>M 40 yrs at point of DD. OW age late 40's, me late 50's<P>[This message has been edited by LAD (edited June 05, 2001).]<p>[This message has been edited by LAD (edited June 05, 2001).]
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WS is 25 and I am 27...married 1.5 years.
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H was 26 for first EA, and PA started within weeks of him turning 27.
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H was 35. I was 30, OW was 22. He admitted MLC and was diagnosed with depression.<BR>
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H is 40. I am 38. OW is 40! We have been married almost 12 years and together almost 15. I knew he was having trouble with 40, but never expected this!<P>------------------<BR>Cali<P>"Humble yourselves, therefore,under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." <P>1 Peter 5:6-7
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Her (known) affairs were when she was 21, 27 and 37.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>
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He was 29, just before his 30th birthday. He had a hard time turning 30 but OW was 31! Go figure.
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WS is 38, I am 43, OW is 45!!!!!
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Gee I almost feel like we're too old for this. (chuckle). My H was 49 when his EA started. Turned PA around when he turned 50. I found out when he was 51. I am 43. She is 37. She wanted to have children. He wanted to escape his. What a pair they would have made! He's definitely MLC, but won't admit, and counsellor told him he is clinically depressed, but won't admit. His MLC seems to have hit about 10 years later than everyone else who replied. We're trying to understand and get thru all this.
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