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Found this in my H's work e-mail - an account he thought I would never see.<P>First, he sends a glowing report to another manager about what a wonderful job Ms. Mini-Skirted A$$ is doing.<P>She sends back, "Thanks for the love."<P>He sends back, "You know it..........." <P>*************<BR>Thanks for your opinions.<BR>
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do you think the other manager was being sarcastic because of his "glowing" report. Were there specifics about the report that got your radar up?
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Oh, no no no. "Thanks for the love" was the response from his 30-year-old single assistant manager, the one who wears short skirts and high heels and disappears with him for 2-hour lunches. <P>But "She Means Nothing To Him." I guess that explains why he would respond to "Thanks for the love" by saying, "You know it......."<P>Just a *little* blip on the radar........<P>He never thought I would see this. Now he says I am misinterpreting it. How would *you* interpret it???<BR>
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I would take it as heavy flirting. Not exactly a criminal offense in and of itself, but it could mean more. You'd have to sneak a peak at another email. <P>
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Sounds defintitely inappropriate to me, at least. If my manager who I had no romantic interest in gave me a glowing report I would simply send back a note saying Thanks for the good review, I really appreciate it." "Thanks for the love" is definitely NOT an appropriate, professional response. Much too "chummy" also.<BR><p>[This message has been edited by fairydust (edited June 06, 2001).]
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definately worth looking into. follow your instincts they're probably right. Time is working against you on this.<P>Go get him!
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PB - <P>See, your gut feeling HAS been right all along... you're not psycho. I've been trying to tell you that and so have many people at I.com.<P>You're a smart lady, I know you'll do the right thing.<P>Good luck and know that you many people rooting for you.
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