Welcome, Honey, to the place that saved me. I have a feeling that sooner or later, if not already, you'll come here. I've been here since Sept. 2000 and have written hundreds of messages - some seeking help and some trying to help others. It won't take you long to figure out who I am. Go ahead, browse all my posts. I have nothing to hide and you'll see I've been brutally honest. Yea, sometimes I made fun of you - calling you an alien abductee or accusing you of being infected with moose brain worms. And, I had a lot of fun at the expense of OM. Sometimes, I probably made others mad, but hopefully, I made them smile as well. All in all, I hope you'll see how hard I've tried to learn and work on our marriage and how much I love you. You'll even see that I forgave you for all here to see, and I seek your forgiveness for the pain I caused you over the years.<P>Some of the things I've written may make you mad. Some things are very personal that you'll think are off base. I'm sure I misinterpreted some of your statements and actions. Maybe you'll disagree with my advice to others. But, I hope through this you get to know me a little better, regardless of the state of our relationship, and I hope you believe that I really was trying as hard as I could to save our family and be everything I could be for you.<P>Please tell me when you find this message.<P>WAT

WAT<P>This could describe a message from most of us BSs to our WS.<P>Or was that your plan?<P>------------------<BR>Lord give me patience, and give it to me NOW!