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I know NOT to get my hopes up. But I asked H to read the books (SAA, HN,HN, & LB) after he kept saying "I can't fix this." "We can't fix this." over and over last night. (refering to marriage and his A.) <P>I told him what I read on this website and in those books made me believe we could. I asked him to read them and when I got home from school, I noticed they were gone from the table.<P>Okay. Cross fingers. Pray. Pray. Pray. Oh, please that he reads the books. Oh, please that he begins to believe....<P>------------------<BR>Cali<P>"Humble yourselves, therefore,under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." <P>1 Peter 5:6-7
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Dear lord, please help Cali's H read those books and start to believe. <P>I am with you Cali. Good luck.<P>I'm still waiting here for my H to acknowledge that I want to talk to him. Looks like it won't happen tonight though. Guess I'll be waiting for tomorrow to Plan B. Plus nobody has answered my other thread yet, so... I am calling tomorrow to set up another appt. with Jennifr, I've had one other so far.
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Dear Lord, Please soften Cali's H's heart to let you in so that he may heal and believe in his marriage again. <P>Please let the concepts of MB and the books he reads sink in. <P>Please restore Cali's marriage and give her strength and peace.<P>Amen.<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>And we know. We who have seen. ~Pellegrino
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I'm with the rest. I hope your H reads and embraces the techniques and concepts in the books. Just be prepared for the worst, but hope for the best. I think I stole that line from WAT.<P>Good luck.
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Cali,<P>Wow thats great, I concur with rick37, wish I could get my W to read anything about D.<P>Best of luck and may god bless.<P>JK
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Wishing on a star for you....OK, I'll admit I've been praying a bit too (I must be getting desperate LOL!)<BR>The bestest of luck, Cali - it's nice to have some good news at last!<BR>Paint
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Dear lord, please help Cali's H read those books and start to believe. And help him see the wisdom in them. Help him see that they contain the road map to repair their marriage.<P>Z
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Cali, <P>Looks like the weather is getting better. Maybe some fog clearing? Hope so. <P>Pulling for you over on this side. <P>Take Care,<BR>L.<BR>
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Cali,<P>It is a good step, buuuut - be careful not to misunderstand his motives... My W (WS) did the same thing after d-day (came to MB, actually did some posting, read the books, talked to Harley)... Took me a while to realize that all she was doing was trying to convince herself that "it" can't work (i.e. fall back in love with me)... She resisted so hard, that she proved herself right ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) .<P>Anyway, just protect your heart...<P>AGG
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