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#920112 06/15/01 11:35 AM
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I have come to believe that my husband is having some sort of emotional attachment/affair to a woman he dated before me.<BR>Where on this site can I find info about this topic?<BR>Thank You

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Hi,<P>Go to the top of this screen and click on Concepts. There is also a reference to the emotional needs questionnaire. Try to get ahold of some of the books like his needs/her needs, surviving an affair. Another good book is by Dr. James Dobson called: Love must be tough. <P>Study up and read what you can. There is a lot of info on this subject here. There are also many other tools like the phone counseling session for either both of you or just yourself. <P>Please come back and post how you are doing. <P>Take Care,<BR>L.<BR>

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My husband has had an emotional affair, at least thats all he has confessed to. He was calling her on his cell phone at three different numbers, plus he saw her all day at work. I am very hurt and I can't decide if this is the whole truth or not. He lied to me when I asked him if he was calling any women. He was angry and accused me of being suspicious all the time for no reason. When I got proof from the phone bill, he told the truth. It has been over a year and I still can't move on because I don't know if he has told me everything.Please reply!

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Fish around the site reading everything you can, but here is one article that talks about how affairs begin. Could you post any more info and you'll get some opinions as to whether the classic signs are there?<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5059_qa.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5059_qa.html</A> <BR>


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