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Hello -<P>Is it preferred to leave the letter for the WS to read alone or while I'm present? While I'm away at work?<P>Any suggestions would be helpful - it looks like I'm writing my letter tonite...
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I believe you should provide the letter so they read it after you are not present. So either give it as they leave, email it to them, or have someone else deliver it. And thus no contact starts.<P>Post it so we can review and help out. I've fine tuned mine based on the many helpful comments here.<P>I saw your other post about whether to just head for D rather than Plan B, and I think the Plan B option is best. I do understand your feelings though. Sometimes I get the urge to just file papers with "Adultery" checked off, and OMs name on it. But that is when I'm letting my wife's bizarreness get to me. Plan B is the next step.<P>Good luck.<P>
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Just thought I'd let you know you're not alone. I'm going to plan B as well. I'll work on the letter tonight too.
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Thanks!<P>I posted my Plan B letter as a separate topic on this forum.<P>Let me know what you think!
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