post a scathing reply to the latest self-centered post by Humblefish....

Hi BrokenDreamsX<P>Instead, you can post a reply here. How are you doing?<BR><P>------------------<BR>Prayers, Hugs, and Strength from both of us. Things do and can get better. Keep hoping, learning, and growing. Take care of yourself.<P>[H] and Knewjie

I thought she was gone anyway. That's why I posted on her thread. Just wondering if she's sober. I mean, WOW! Is that meaningless, rambling, incoherent babbling or what?<P>Snow

Yes well,<P>I love how she specifically attacks the "WS's / MM" on the board. <P>I fought off the urge myself to post a few nasty things.. "Taking a deep breath, looking outside on this glorious monday afternoon"<P>Oh well I saved the reply I was writing, and had finished.. Cut it out and pasted it in a notepad document on my desktop. Well see.. I guess....<BR><P>------------------<BR>Prayers, Hugs, and Strength from both of us. Things do and can get better. Keep hoping, learning, and growing. Take care of yourself.<P>[H] and Knewjie

I don't know about the rest of you....but she sounded a little wasted to me....hope she not driving....I feel sorry for her but those doesn't mean she should be allowed to make a general attack on the board because things are not going her way. Sounds like a teenager who hasn't gotten her way really....just silly. Let her move on if she doesn't want to listen....I think most people have been very nice to her....and everyone is welcome but not to just blow us off.<P>Faye

Thanks for the support! I’m glad I didn't post the reply that was going through my mind. I realize her situation is painful but have little empathy. There are times in everyone's life where they are given choices. The decisions they make can make a huge impact. I'm content with the choices I've made throughout my life and I'm happy that I've never done anything to another person that would cause them pain. If I had chosen to focus on only myself in the midst of the pain my H and OW, has put me through, my actions would have finished the job of destroying our family that my H started. Not everyone is capable of doing what some of us BS's have done. I suppose that is what makes the world an interesting place. That also plays a part in the devastation affecting the family these days. I understand that statistically the family, consisting of a mother, father, and children is no longer the majority.

Okay, I'm probably going to make HF even more unhappy, but my personal opinion as the xOW is that you should go ahead and let her know how you feel (in a semi-polite acceptable to this board reply.) Sometimes when we're stubbornly in the fog, we have to be mataphorically slapped out of the fog. I don't know what she's thinking, but maybe ...?... she's looking for some kind of punishment? I think I was. I kept thinking that I deserved to be slammed. I thought of myself as this horrible person and I lost my self respect and started drinking too. <P>During my A with the MM, I was literally losing it, behaving and thinking as crazily as HF seems to be right now. At the time, I remember telling myself (not out loud of course) to stop it, stop saying this or stop doing this, but there seemed to be some kind of connection failure between my brain and the rest of me. <P>Don't know if that helped, but maybe subconciously that's what she wants, to be slammed.<P>Make any sense?<BR>