Yeah, I know. I already posted about this, but I still hate waiting. My H actually said he would TRY to come by tonight before work. That's anytime between now and 45 minutes from now... So I wait and wait. Otherwise, I wait until some ungodly hour in the morning and talk then when he gets off 3rd shift (like 5:30am).<P>Are other WS's so inconsiderate that they do this to their BS? I mean it's one thing to just wait for them and worry, but it's another when the WS specifically says "we need to talk", gives just enough hints so my imagination runs wild, and then leaves you hanging typically for days... I think that is SO rude. It drives me crazy (as you can tell from my posts).<P>Also, I wanted to let you guys know that I have yet to really yell or cuss out my H for what he's done. That's why I always seem to have such a negative attitude and swearing and stuff. This is my vent and the way I get my anger/frustration/fear out. It's also why I post so much.<P>Thank you guys so much for being here and just listening. <P>I am pathetic. I am staring out the window waiting. I will try to go DO something. I keep thinking I hear him pulling up the driveway...<P>I am typically a very patient person - when I know what the heck it is I'm waiting for. I know, just believe the worse and anything else he tells me will not seem so bad.

hurtbyhubby,<P>I know it's starting to sound like a broken record. But....<P>I thought you were in Plan B and that there was supposed to be no contact. No contact is no contact.<P>He continues to find ways to get to you. Once again he is playing games with you. He is controlling you by baiting you and you continue to buy into it.<P>Please don't let my response here upset you. I'm just trying to be a good friend, to bring you back to where you need to be. He is never going to respect your boundaries until you yourself respect them.<P>Do keep us posted. We are here for you.<P>Z<BR><P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare

I hate waiting too - but I'm getting better at it LOL!<P>You mentioned you kept thinking you could hear him coming up the driveway - why do we put ourselves through this. You know, every time I wake up in the morning I have to check to see if he's 'magically' appeared on the other side of the bed...Every time I come home, after being out, and I open the garage door, my heart drops when I realise that his car still isn't there...Every time the telephone rings, I dash to it, thinking it might be him! Sometimes I could kick myself!<P>Hang in there - best of luck,<BR>Paint.

YOU ARE NOT PATHETIC!<P>I'm a very patient person too. Sometimes I think it's not good to be too patient. <BR>I would encourage you to continue on with your own life and interests so it is not so controlling of you.