Rick,<P>I've been following your story for some months now. Our stories are so similar it's scary. I particularly recall in one of your recent posts the following:<P>"her friends are in a different stage of life than the one I thought we were living in" or something to that effect. So well put.<P>The one thing that I'm astonished by in your situation is that your W has not filed for D. I don't think I've ever heard you having discussions about a D with her.<P>Has she ever mentioned that this is coming?<P>Jay