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Has anyone out there used one? I feel my husband connects with OW or use to, email or his work phone but company pays bill so don't know how a PI could get the bill and records.??? Same with his cell phones. Any ideas on what info a PI can get other than the OW phone, work place, address which I already know. Thanks

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C:<P>In doing some online research about As the other night, I came across a tidbit (but darn if I can remember where I saw it):<P>Those who suspect their spouse and hire a PI are right 95 percent of the time.<P>So, for a bunch of bucks, you can satiate what you probably already know. Save the bucks for a (solo if necessary) vacation to Maui.<P>Unless, of course, you need the evidence for legal purposes, then the investment is probably well worth it.<P>Godspeed,<BR>STL<p>[This message has been edited by SeenTheLight (edited June 28, 2001).]

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I used PI to catch my wife and OM. I gathered alot of info myself and was pretty sure where the were going. I suggest you note the milage on his car. Figure out where he goes and then you come up with a radius. You might also put a tap on your phone. you can get a recorder at radio shack which plugs into the phone outlet and is voice activated. I did this as well and got good info. Do you know who OW is? where do you suspect they go? I will tell you when I confronted my wife with phone records meeting place etc she still denies her affair. "They are just friends". It does get to the point that the stories they make up are so filled with minutiae that you know they are pure fiction. Trust your gut feelings they usually dont lie to you if you think something is going on it probably is. feel free to e-mail me a jdelaney@mcg-ins.com. Ill try to answer any questions you may have. Also with regards to a PI, the more info you have the less they have to do and the easier it is for them to get what you want. However, I is very doubtful you will ever catch them having sex. I would really like to accomplish that but its almost impossible.

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C:<P>When I first started posting here, there was someone whose OW was at her H's work. Basically, she went to HR informed that of misuse and I believe that the company did produce the docs for her to use. Where I worked at before a mandate came out about the managers getting copies of all phone numbers that ees called. This started a major civil rights issue at work. The company did this to see who was really misusing company property. The company did not follow through on that 'threat' butif the company felt their phones were being misused, they would take action other discplinary action. <P>You may want to check to see the company policy. <P>As far as a P/I. There are laws against (which may vary from state to state) as far as tapping phones, etc. Find a p/i firm that employs off duty law enforcement officers and ask them what are their abilities. You may be surprised. <P>L.<BR> <BR>


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