I have a post from two days ago this is a follow up. My husband made a no more contact call yesterday morning to OW.<BR>He called me on his way home and told me everything about the relationship with her said when he met her he was in a bad place with our relationship she was going through a divorce and they became friends never any sex kissing only.She fell in love with him. All the times in the past he told me he was going to have no more contact with her he said he couldn't keep his word at the time because he was very mixed up but knows now he mislead her and told her that he loves his family and for her to move on. She went crazy on the phone told him she hates him and she wishes him and his family only bad he said she kept going on and on so he told her again that they are over and hung up the phone. When he got home we talked more and he told me how guilty he was feeling one for everything he has put me and the kids through and he can't believe I still love him and how gratefull he is for that, but the other being how much he hurt the OW. My question has anyone been in this spot do you think because he feels so bad for messing up her life that if she pages him again he will call her back, he told me he would just ignore the pages from now on, is ther anything else that we shold do or I should do now to keep him strong. It hurt me hearing all the details but I told H I needed to have all my questions answered so I can forgive him and we can move foward in our relationship. At this point I am very worried about what she will do next and how my H will respond. Thank you to any one who can help I don't want either of us to do the wrong thing at this point.

PHK:<P>The no contact call was a great start. He seems to be back on track and departing from the fog.<P>All positive things. Perhaps you could broach the subject with him about following up with a no contact letter as well.<P>My wife waited patiently while I crafted my letter. Originally, I had thought: no contact means no contact. But the importance of this to her in the rebuilding process made me rethink my position. So I (eventually) did. A very tough letter to write, but once done, it helped heal me as well.<P>Godspeed,<BR>STL

Thank you for your reply STL, I don't seem to get many. I will see what my husband thinks about the no contact letter.<BR>Thanks for your words and good luck to you and your wife.<BR>PHK