I want to introduce my H to MB's. If I just hand him some information I know he will not read it.<P>I was wondering what you all would think of writing him directly on this website in a post. I know that would get his attention for sure. Just to tell him about MB, offer him support in getting out of his A(he's living with her) and letting him know about success stories from those who have been there.<P>Does this sound like a good idea to you? Would you be willing to write to him in a friendly kind of way?<P>I would just print it off my computer and give it to him when he comes over to do his bookwork.<P>He has his new scummy circle of support with his OW and I'd like to give him some support should he decide to move in this direction.<P> If it seems like a good idea I will set up a new post under, "Letters to GAR". What do you think?

Maezy - after about five months of my wife's affair and three months of separation, I got her to agree to read His Needs/Her Needs and to talk with Steve Harley. That was last November. I expect her to file for divorce any day now.<P>Until they're ready to listen and see, they will not hear us or see us. My wife used His Needs/Her Needs to justify her lack of feelings for me and she used her conversation with Steve Harley as justification for not being understood.<P>Sure, we can post a message to him. I'll do it myself. But I think you're better off by not trying to educate him until he's ready to learn. In fact, it may be counterproductive. Please spend your energy making improvements in your self, then demonstrating those improvements (Plan A). When you can't give anymore, Plan B.<P>You can lead a WS to MB, but you can't make them drink.<P>WAT

Thanks worthatry<P>I consider your input very valuable.