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Re hubby doesn't love me anymore
#924741 07/01/01 02:42 PM
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Sorry for my long rambling post,want to make it clear that there wasn't anything going on between my H & his friend just acouple of people that enjoy each others company & I got it wrong.
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#924742 07/01/01 02:46 PM
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Are you absolutely certain that your H isn't involved with someone else? Even an emotional affair counts as an affair.
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#924743 07/01/01 03:22 PM
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I didn't really want to hear that, but I guess only he knows that I'm sure he's been honest with me.
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#924744 07/01/01 03:24 PM
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How do you edit stuff in here can't find an edit button but see that some people have edited I'm sure he would tell me he's got nothing to lose.
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Maybe your H is being honest with you, maybe not. I do know that when people are having A's they routinely lie. I asked my previously honest H if he was having an A three or four times. Each time he said no. The last time I asked him to look me straight in the eyes and tell me he isn't having an affair. He looked me straight in the eyes and lied.<P>I found his cell phone bill that had numerous calls to an unknown number. I called it. A woman's answering machine picked up and I knew it was true, he was having an A.
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Hi Cally,<P> I think you will have most of us here say , YES, he probably is having an affair....They almost ALWAYS lie . He might have things to lose by telling you,for example, - what others think, more hassles,your reaction. .....you name it . <P>From your other post which I read, my "affair alarm" was going off big time......LU
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cally-<BR>If you do discover for certain that your H is having an A, you are one step ahead of most of us because you have discovered this website before you react. Please read the website and decide what to do ahead of time.<BR>I made the mistake of telling him to leave when I found out about the A. It's been over 4 months now. I'm still hopeful he'll be back.
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#924748 07/01/01 10:11 PM
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Hey everyone thanks for your input hope I can help you's out some day!<BR>Cheers<BR>Cally

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