OK, I snooped again. A little background to what I found. I mentioned in another post that I found out recently that I have been exposed to a virus, transmitted sexually. It could cause issues in the future for me---cervical cancer is one of the things that it causes. H apparently got it from OW, then, so kindly gave it to me. When I told him, the impression I got is that he was very angry at OW. They supposedly had discussed this and she said she didn't have anything. Maybe she lied, maybe she didn't know......<P>Anyway, I found a copy of an ecard and a couple of emails from H and to H from OW regarding what he found out about the "medical issue" yesterday. HUH????? He was home painting the garage and took the girls to a movie yesterday. Nothing else. Did he lie to her and tell her that he has something going on? But now I'm worried, too. Is there something going on that he hasn't told me about??? Or was he saying that he was going to be finding something out about me? <P>What the he** is going on??? Major fog, that's for sure. Unfortunately, I don't see it clearing anytime soon.....

J, I'll bet he's lying to her. But sadly, if I'm correct, this means he may be trying to avoid conflict with her instead of giving her the blunt heave-ho. However, avoiding conflict fits with prolonging making a decision. Who do you think has the most patience, you or her?<P>So, my read is that's he's still indecisive, but you knew that. What do you do? I think hang on until the end of your three weeks and see what he does.<P>WAT<p>[This message has been edited by worthatry (edited July 01, 2001).]

HiI:<P>WAT's hammer is still hitting the nail on the head. He is in the fog, and from appearances doesn't appear to be telling you or the OW the truth.<P>Godspeed and prayers,<BR>STL<BR>

Got to agree with WAT and STL.