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Hi I just realised somthing I am sure that if there are any "oldtimers" out there you will/might remember my problem with H last affair and oral sex (he used to love it then all of a sudden hated it - said she bit him there, and several stories that changed over the yeras LOL) well for the last 2 years its been totally off limits and very missed by me as this was somthing we both really used to enjoy... heres the funny part all of a sudden (evening of discovery and most nights there after) he has been requesting it (oral sex) after an abscence of 2 years and many requests on my part all of a sudden he remembers how great it was and now wants it 24/7 again? go figure any input on this one? It has me totally puzzeled<BR>Jen

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Yayyy!!!!<P>I'd say he's healing - emotionally - and the negative associations are fading and the positive (YOU, Girl!!!) are back!!! This stuff can take lots of time.<P>Have fun! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Lori


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