Where in the UK are you? I come from Northamptonshire...<BR>I've got a really bad craving for a Flake, a Wispa and some Maltesers at the moment...Ooooh, and a Ripple too....yummy.<BR> <BR>How are you doing today? <P>hugs, Paint.

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back to the top. <P>Sad, how are you doing today. Did you read? I got my tattoo. One more thing off my list of things to do...

Hello Everyone,<P>Had lots of troubles trying to log on to MB yesterday,felt lost without you all.VERY frustrating.<P>H left the country yesterday,he called from the airport to say goodbye.I asked him how he was,he replied fine thank you,very cold and offhand. A while later he left a voicemail saying that he couldn't say more because he would have become very emotional?????<P>I didn't even try to analyze this because it was too big of a thing to take on at that moment.However today I am analyzing it to death,any ideas?<P>Had my counselling apt today,very helpful.Broke down terribly but felt better afterwards.<P>Paint<BR>I can easy send you these goodies if you want,just let me know where.I am from the South of England.<P>HBH<BR>I cannot believe you did it,GOOD for you,tell me did it hurt bad??? OUCH... I am not that brave.<P>I sent H a message today,just wishing him a nice day etc Had no reply so far.Miss him so much.<P>Thinking of you all each and every day.<P>Thank you<P>SAD (not alone anymore)<P>

Hi Sad. It sounds like you handled that marvelously and you are doing better. That always makes me happy. <P>Don't worry if you don't get any reply. The point is, he GOT it and plan A is working.<P>Try not to analyze what he said (you know that) - fog talk. However, if nothing but to give you a little hope, it is very promising that he says it would have made him too emotional. It means he still cares alot and is still confused. Keep plan Aing!!<P>The tattoo didn't hurt that bad. I got it right above my left breast. It is a picture of a dragon in front of the moon. I can't stop looking at it. I love it. I am so glad I did this finally.<P>What have you done for you? Have you given any thought to getting a pet, doing some volunteer work, or other things you may be able to do FOR YOU? Do you LIKE to work (some do, some don't). If you do, go searching for your PERFECT job while you have the luxury of turning down ones that are just so-so. Keeping busy helps and you can make new friends (female - DO NOT make any male friends, I don't care who they are or what they do/say - you are too vulnerable - an affair CAN happen to you - it CAN happen to anyone).

Hi Sad,<P>You are doing so well - I'm glad you could have a good cry with the counsellor, I believe that crying is very cleansing and it does help! <P>I'm still having some problems with the MB site too - it just seems to be painfully slow to load these past few days, so I haven't been able to keep up with all the posts, unfortunately. I can literally go and make a cup of tea or take a short nap while I'm waiting for it to load sometimes!!! <P>Luckily, we have a couple of small stores here that sell British goodies, and I'm off to visit one of them today, so you can be sure that I'll be munching away on a Flake later on About the only thing I can't get over here is the British weather - and I DEFINATELY don't miss that LOL!<P>Take care Sad - you've had a rough time and you have coped with it so well...go and do some nice things for yourself today/tomorrow. I'm declaring it 'Official Sad Treat Day'!<BR>So....icecream, chocolate, aromatherapy bath, pedicure, bottle of wine with your girlfriends....whatever you fancy, OK?<P>hugs, Paint.

Hey there Sad;<P>Just wanted to say Hi.<P>I agree with everyone else...sounds like you have your situation under control.<P>Have a great day!<P>fb