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I am just starting to learn the truth about my Hs PA with my best friend which happened almost 6 years ago. He claims it was oral sex only. Don't know if I believe him.<P>My question is...how many of you whose spouses had oral sex felt the need to get tested for stds?<P>thanks
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STDs can be passed through oral sex. So testing is still necessary.<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare
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Maggie I would be inclined to believe that after the length of time that has passed you have a good chance of not contacting a STD. But, for your own well being get tested. I believe it needs to be done at three month intervals for AIDS, I am not quite sure. My H was tested at the end of his A and it's been 4 months now. Probably time to retest.<P>I've read a few of your posts, right now you are having a hard time dealing with "being kept in the dark" and trusting again. My heart goes out to you.
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I have been tested twice in 6 months. Will continue the testing every six months. They say annually is ok. I trust no one on this and my doctor says every six months for at least 1 - 2 years is ok, then annually after that.<P>So far, it has come back negative. But you never know. OW is promiscuous even though she claims H is her one and only. She has already dated at least 1 other man and don't really know if that meant sex or not. <P>Better safe than sorry on this one. H was also tested, he needs to either go be with OW or be tested again. <P>L.<BR>
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