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It's not really very exciting , only a summons for him because he backed into someone else's car. Unfortunately, I wish it was for doing something totally stupid, like being in a fight or something.<P>WH is being so irresponsible in so many othwer ways too! He's not taking care of business, being forgetful about things and so on.(out of character)<BR>I just want to smack him!!!!<P>He is really starting to remind me of a big teenager that ran away from home for a party!!!<P>He's out drinking with his OW all the time, hangin' with his old school biker buddies. <P>I'm going to tell him if he's going to "FLY WITH THE CROWS THEN YOU WILL BECOME A CROW"<P>I'm gonna tell him <P>YOU BETTER SHAPE UP<BR>CAUSE I NEED A MAN<BR>WHO CAN KEEP ME SATISFIED!!!(from Grease)<P>Who needs this crap!!!!!<P>
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Maezy:<BR>[sorry M, forgot to check the UserName box ... zorweb was still logged on <smile>]<P>Feel better about the vent? Good <smile> ... but do not say it to him ... huge LB.<P>Of course he is being irresponsible ... he's totally in the fog, and of course it is going to affect his work and other aspects of his life.<P>Stay the course: Plan A.<P>Godspeed,<BR>STL<p>[This message has been edited by zorweb (edited July 02, 2001).]
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Still plans for plan B? Just curious.
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Yes I have plans for B sometime before the 6 month mark<BR>that's Aug.22. I keep thinking I'll do it in a few days but then I change my mind.<P>I have a few things I want to say to him in letters first.<BR>If I space out these letters for one each time he comes, then it works out to about 2 weeks from now. <BR>Crazy, isn't it? I have all these prewritten letters to him, and a drawer full of discards!<P>Am I obsessed or what?
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Zorweb<BR>So I can't tell him he's becoming a crow?<BR>I guess you're right.
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Maezy:<P>I really don't think you have to "tell" them anything...they know what they are doing...and at some point the guilt will come home to them...but for now they live in the "land of the lotus people"...lost in the fog, wandering lost, zonked out of their minds (its the only way to deal with it), the blind leading the blind...we can only hope their nature sense of preservation wakes them up in time.<P>So don't waste your time and energy...this time is better spent on yourself...make yourself happy...now is important too. <P>Feels good to vent though, doesn't it. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Faye
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Thanks Buffy. You guys bring me back my plan A. I was going to blow it!
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