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I like reading the posts from couples who are currently working to restore their marriage. It gives so many of us hope that things can work out. Although, isn't it sometimes true that the WS does not want to continue the marriage once they are found out? What if there is no remorse? Do you continue with Plan A?<P>
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That is frequently the case. I'm not in recovery yet, unfortunately, but WS will often want to leave or continue in the A after it is found out.<BR>This is the time to keep plan Aing, if you can<BR>Have you read "Surviving anAffair" by Harley?<P>I would recommend you read that and anything else you can find about A's.<P>The WS is in a fog, that keeps them from thinking clearly.<BR>They often return home after the fog has cleared, sometimes before, and there are some that never end their A.(very few)
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Thanks for the post. My husband moved back to our home about six weeks ago - after a two year separation. Although he has never admitted to there being someone else, I always assumed there was. So when he came back, I thought Plan A would be very easy since he must be committed after all this time. I am finding that I have serious doubts that the A is over. I know I can do Plan A if he wants to reconcile, but it will be harder if he has no remorse.
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