<I> O Lord, my God, in Thee do I put my trust; save me from all them that persecute me, and deliver me. </I> Psalm 7:1<P>My friends do not waste your energies. Does JaP, JaP2 or JaPToo speak the truth? We may never know...<P>My H apologized to me for letting this invasion come upon me. He said OW did post here. She was 'enflamed' by what I had posted. He said she was amazed that her post had 37 replies...I think if we read her post that jives.<P>Somebody is lying. I care not who. All 3 may be OW. Games are her style. I can't believe her H would write that stuff to me. He was heartbroken about A. Unless she has totally brainwashed him and he is gullibly buying what she is saying, I don't think 2 or Too is really him.<P>She's a clever OW. I have called her directly and called her out. She must come to me cloaked in anonimity, start a flame, then lie. Her character speaks for itself.<P>She lies. She lies. She lies. She probably doesn't even know truth when it stares her in the face.<P>Say a prayer for her, my friends and rest assured that I will remain here, with my friends.<P>From now on I will be,<BR>JustPlainCali<P>------------------<BR><I>Trust in the Lord, and do good; so that thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shall be fed. </I> Psalm 37:3<P><p>[This message has been edited by JustPlainCali (edited July 03, 2001).]

Your too funny, Cali. In the face of all this animosity and you are "justplaincali". Very fitting.<P>I too felt JAP and JAP2 were one in the same, both the OW. I didn't bother posting to either of them for that reason.<P>You do not deserve this, but I am glad you have decided to stay on with us and let us help you as best we can.<P>Imagine being controlled by a woman like that and I can see where your H's inner anger comes from and why he is so confused.<P><<<<<<<Cali>>>>>>>>>

JustPlainCali<P>There is nothing plain or simple about you, but there are many wonderful things. So wonderful to hear from you! Thanks for setting the record straight! It was very hard for me to believe that such a *hurt and grieving H* could heal so quickly, and so unabashadly come out against you. There was way too much *sticking up for ones position* to think anything less. I, for one, am delighted to hear from you and hope that you and H are doing better!! I could go on and on about what I think, but suffice to say...Glad you are here and doing better!!<P>*Out of our greatest fears, come our bravest deeds!*<P>Trueheart

All:<P>Whether it is Shocked, Stronger, Plain or Flower; Cali is A-One.<P>Godspeed,<BR>STL

Hi Cali,<P>I really did think that JaP was OW (Princess). My instincts haven't let me down yet. She did do a good deflection and 2nd post, she's pretty good at deception. <P>Hearing this latest news from your H, I don't feel too much empathy for her. The manipulation will most certainly come back to her eventually. Cali, just let this thing (the A) die it's natural death. Lora and I were talking last nite, and we both feel it will. <P>In the meantime, YOUR job is to take care of you and the children. To make yourself strong and be the best "Cali" you can be. This is a horrible learning experience, but you do learn things. Open yourself up to them.<P>And I would suggest a strong Plan A. It's easier when you're seperated to do a Plan A. It was for me. I didn't have to know everything he was doing, and so I had love left and I missed him. And I made sure he knew that. <P>Keep posting. You have a journey in front of you and you need us and MB to get to your destination. <P>Much love, strength and prayers your way,<BR>Jo

Cali,<P>Good to see you are still here. <P>My vote is that JaP, JaP2 and JaPToo are all one and the same - Princess. The language use in JaP2 and JaPToo's posts are not what one would expect from a man.<P>I am so sorry that she feels a need to inflict pain on you this way. You have done nothing to her. Indeed she is the person doing wrong here.<P>How awful that you have to put up with this. <P>Z<BR><P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare

{{{{{{Cali}}}}}}<P>You da bomb lady!<P>We're here for you!

I am incredibly confused, I thought my life was complicated!<BR>Do you all know each other?

cloudseeker,<P>Yes we do know eachother. Here on MB. It's one of those things you had to be here for.<P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare