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H's Browser History showed that he was looking at LOCAL personal ads yesterday. These were not sexy ones like at adult friend finder but just plain ol personals..... but tey were local.... i tried not to LB when i confronted him his reply was it was a pop up and he was bored... I do not think he made an account with the site but it still distressed me that he was looking.<BR>should i be worried?all help, advice, feedback, stories, welcome<BR>thanks
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Roxy - Please consider not confronting him about stuff like this.<P>1. It's a love buster<BR>2. Why would you believe any response he gives when confronted?<P>File it away as another piece of evidence that he's still confused. In the least, this is different from communicating with OW.<P>WAT
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If you already have reason not to trust him, then this probably adds to your evidence.<BR>HOWEVER, if this is an isolated incident, then he may be telling the truth about being bored. <BR>
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Roxy..<P>I think you need to look beyond the response and more to the reaction. Was it hostile? Was it angry? If there was nothing to hide and just out of boredom, then his reaction shouldn't be an emotional one. He would have just answered the question, no big deal. If there was something to hide, you would see some anger or finger pointing going on about invading his privacy or something along those lines. I know I have looked at sites like that out of boredom, but not anymore after D-day for the exact reason, that I don't want her worried or confused.<P>Keep the faith...hang in there!<P>Trueheart
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